Till recently I felt I was the only one with a hand of God written not just on my shirt but as well on my Fate – I was wrong; There are things I feel that I should have had learnt earlier and in better company than with those who made me learn it with lessons coming across. Let me explain:
For Years, My choice of making friends has always been staggeringly horrible – the only good ones made being from school and to some extent from college – the exception coming in from school in case of those relations which fructified over time. Normally the Graph of making and breaking Friendly Lines begins with the major pareto in the beginning and the lines ending with those ones who stay till the end – My Friend once said:
“Don’t make random friends whom you can call your support at every time when you may be lonely – Make those who wouldn’t be there for your “Lose Times” but will stand by you when you may want to leave the world for heavenly abode. And love those friends more than anyone in this life; cause you may not be a human in the afterlife(if you believe in one) – very distinct and logically positive in today’s times – you will not have more than a finger count of friends by the time you are breathing your last, so make those finger count people worthy of being in your life by being with the right ones.”
People will come by – be good to you – make you feel important in the beginning – and then hurt you and show you the level to which they can make you fall and/or fall themselves – show that Anger and their self-sustenance is more important to them than the relation itself – they will try to prove how much unimportant in this world you can be and how much of a maniac you are to them – in their eyes and much much more. The “point of distinction” here would be to recognize those who act as your facilitators and those who are the inhibitors – remove the latter and try to maintain the former.
Facilitators would not want to fight over things that can be sorted by proof of deduction or reasoning or a consensus, while the inhibitors would go on telling the world about what kind of a loser they deem you to be or find you as! This is not your concern to worry about though. Life has more things to worry and enjoy than these – is what I learnt from my outside City life – Bangalore -
Sooner or later, Every one comes across these kinds of people who make the person realize whom to choose and whom to let go smoothly so that life is a better place to live – not all can be got rid of – but majority should be dealt with. There will be opposite sex trying to pull you down with their irritation as well as irrational attitude and unprecedented importance and demand of ideologies in their favor from time to time. Suggestion to draw limitations may not always be an answer and not suggested either. but the point where the line runs dry and the mind cannot take it anymore – is the point where the line should be drawn – it might end you a little lonely or else even more powerful – since people who matter, don’t mind and people who mind, don’t matter
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